I’m new here but I need advice
I’m 18 and so is boyfriend and our daughter turned 1 at the end of last month. When I told my parents that I was pregnant they weren’t happy and they told me to have an abortion as dd could be autistic as my boyfriend is and that my boyfriend won’t be a ‘good dad’. I refused and I moved in with boyfriend and his dad and when I gave birth my boyfriend did a bit but he wasn’t that confident but by the start of March he was more confident. My mum also said that dd would embarrassed of him when she grew up.
On dds birthday my parents didn’t even send a card. A few days after my mum messaged saying that they didn’t sent dd a card as I’m still with boyfriend and that if I split up with him I would be able to stop dd from seeing him as the court ‘wouldn’t give him any access as he ‘doesn’t help out with dd’ but he does he baths her, feeds her, plays with her etc.
And my mum also said I don’t need another child to look after etc but He is a good partner for example this morning I had bad cramps and he got up with dd, gave her breakfast and went to the shop to get me some paracetamol.
WIBU? Any advice will be appreciated
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aibu01 · 22/02/2021 19:48
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