One minute dh is nice, communicative etc. The next he’s tired. Tiredness results in him being verbally abusive, aggressive and cold.
Out of the blue. Everything can be lovely and civil. The next, he’s vicious and makes personal digs.
The common factor is tiredness.
I can honestly say I try my best. I try to make things smooth. If I see him beginning to rise, I make more effort to calm everything. Often I fail. He mocks me and copies my voice if I’m nice. Impersonates me. If I don’t react, he says I’m sulking. If I do react, he says I’m argumentative.
I’ve lost confidence in myself. I live for the dream. For the nice snippets he has buried deep. I’m so tired
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Flossie44 · 19/02/2021 23:23
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