I think I know the answer to this one but before I say anything why don’t you ladies (and gents) tell me how this is going to go....
I met my partner (both were single) on Fab (a swingers hookup site) over 18 months ago. We’ve been exclusive since although we did consider including others for a while and created a joint profile on fab. We eventually agreed not to proceed. About 9 months ago I noticed via our joint profile that my boyfriend’s personal profile was still active. We discussed it, he said he wanted us to close the joint profile and I expressed my concerns about him still using his personal profile. He said he just looks at profiles idly now and then but didn’t message anyone.
I had an idle curiosity last night (prompted by another mumsnet thread) to just pop onto Fab and see if he was still active and his profile was last logged into 16hrs previously. I checked again today and it was accessed 3hrs previously.
If I ask him about this what do you think he’s going to say? I’d just like to see the script in advance because I’m quite sure he’ll be convincing....
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Peace43 · 16/02/2021 22:40
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