Ok so firstly trigger warning.
When I was 15/16 I was extremely traumatized after a major incident and 'acting out' , trying to run away from home etc. During this time I had quite a few sexual partners and at one point had a very short 'relationship' with a much, much older man (me 16, him 48).
My DP and me met 2 years later and have now been together a long time with DC.
He knew about my past. I told him a few months into our relationship.
The other night we were watching TV having a few drinks and something relevant came on TV. I don't normally drink a lot so it just came out that I was with someone way older. I wasn't graphic in any way.
Well DP has suddenly decided he can't handle this, he must have suppressed it and if he'd fully known he'd never have had DC with me, he would've left me. He's been saying some absolutely vile graphic things. He's also said he's "got what's left" of me and that he has to leave "such a person".
He's now decided that he will try if I report to police. But since I was 16 there's no crime, don't see how I can.
I'm bereft. I don't know what he's doing or why he's hurting me like this. I know I should LTB, I know, but we've been together so long I can't see it.
Help or even a handhold please.
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I'm devastated. Why is he acting like this? *tw*
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packupmytroubles · 14/02/2021 10:28
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