Wondering what your thoughts are on this...
Been with DP for 3 years. He’s a fantastic partner, father, everything. Can’t fault him really.
Only thing that niggles me is the way he is with his phone. He’s always been this way but it’s started to concern me.
He’s cagey with it. Wont let me on it, hold it, see a photo he’s taken etc. I’ve asked him about it in the past and he just says he’s always been like that and not sure why. I asked if he’s hiding anything and he said no.
Recently the issue came up again and I said it was really bothering me. I said I don’t think it’s normal behaviour if he has nothing to hide. At that point as he could see I was so upset he agreed he is probably a bit OTT and will be more open if it makes me feel better. He’s given me his password (not that I asked for it or want to go through his phone) and said if I need to use it for something then I can.
Obviously this is good and makes me feel better but I just can’t understand why for the past 3 years he’s been cagey and secretive if he’s had nothing to hide. I’ve had no other reason whatsoever to think he’s playing away or betraying me.
AIBU or do you think he’s been doing things he shouldn’t?
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Odd Phone Behaviour?
SingSweetNightingale · 22/01/2021 15:14
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