My DP cheated on me in the summer, typical scenario of a work colleague. Things had gotten tough between us in the last year due to a new baby, so that was his excuse.
He told me, said how sorry he was, he didn’t love her, he loved me. So we tried again, then I had an inkling he was still in contact with her (they work for same company but not together) I asked him, he admitted it and said he felt guilt towards her as she’s being upset about it ending,was depressed, suicidal thoughts etc hence him contacting her again. So after a long chat he said he would block her and he showed me.
How do I get the trust back? Is it possible? Every time I see him online I assume he is talking to her, due to him lying in the past. He is not the most open person with his feelings which makes it harder.
Please no LTB comments, constructive opinions on regaining that trust.
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Regaining trust after cheating
Premdalem · 19/01/2021 10:34
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