Not sure if its lockdown just making my brain scrambled, I'm sure it is.
My partner works on a site, all men 1 woman, my issue started with the lady for a few months, I imagine things in my head going on between her and my fiance, I have had a proper discussion multiple times with my him just to clear my head and get the truth and he is not hiding anything i am certain, he tells me he hardly talks to her and she is just a work colleague, he keeps himself busy everyday, works mon-fri comes home and looks forwards to seeing us that me and hes 4 year old daughter are the only important girls in hes life, hes not interested in her or anyone and he never will be, he talks of the future, spending it with me, growing old with me...... only problem is why do i keep having this issue with this woman?! I've met her and spoke to her on about 3 or 4 occasions and she don't seem that bad, i think what got my goat was she spoke to me about a subject i hope she doesnt talk about to the guys that are on site including my fiance as i feel its inappropriate considering these men are bfs, fiances, husbands with loving partners at home etc i questioned my fiance who said in no uncertain terms does she speak like that to him or about any personal inappropriate subject and he hasn't heard her do so with anyone else so I'm assuming she doesn't talk to many women and felt happy to confide in me. I just want to get on with trusting my partner 1000% and stop obsessing over this woman who should not be invading my thinking space at all but I'm continually allowing her too
Has anyone got any ideas how i can just forget about these silly notions and this woman, please for the sake of whats left of my sanity (partly thanks to this lockdown) plus before I seriously start pissing my fella off with my constant questioning.
Much thanks
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JoJo1015 · 18/01/2021 23:06
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