My husband and I initially separated in May. At the time I wanted us to go away and deal with some respective issues. He was angry I no longer wanted to live with him and that I couldn't give time frames or and certainties.
We went our separate ways. The house has been put on the market, and we are due to complete on the 29th. We both have our own purchases.
In this time he had a short fling with someone, but ended it a few months ago, because he realised he was still in love with me.
I have an having counselling on issues I felt were impacting on me and our marriage. Some of these were deep seated, and left over from a difficult childhood.
He has been incredibly helpful in the last few months with regards to the house and sorting things out ready to move. We have a 3 year old together.
I am wondering now whether we have a future. In the past we were best friends, as well as a couple, if that makes sense. We share a love of the great outdoors. Having a baby put huge strain on our relationship. I suffered from PND, and honestly, I believe he did as well.
Is there hope, or am I just living in the past.
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Going back to an ex - does it ever work
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BeginningAgain · 17/01/2021 10:28
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