Advice for dd and stalking ex

[tenlittlecygnets]

Dd is 17. Last year she split up with a controlling boyfriend and we had to contact the police as he was cyberstalking her and sending horrible messages.

This week he has started to stalk her - with his new gf. He was at DD's bus stop after school twice this week, just stood there watching her for 15 mins. He goes to a different college, shouldn't be anywhere near her. He was with his gf - dd doesn't know her, never met her.

The gf stood watching dd then shouted and screamed at dd and chased her.

Wtf???

Dd called the police for advice today. Then bus came and she got on. She doesn't want me to do anything that might antagonise her ex.

What would you do? I want to contact the police, get them to tell him to stay the fuck away from her, and contact both colleges that her ex and his gf go to.

Obviously I will wait until dd has decided what she wants to do - but wwyd?

[Dullardmullard]

She needs to phone the police every time he harasses her and stick with it. Press charges. Show him she can’t be frightened off.

If the ex or new gf tries any thing tell her to scream fire loudly and keep screaming.

Tell her to not to go anywhere alone and always let folks know where she is at all times

[tenlittlecygnets]

Thank you. She already makes sure she's with someone after school and on the way to bus. It's shit that she has to, but she feels safer that way.

She called the police yesterday and they said to call back if he appears again. But they were a bit shit the last time we complained about this behaviour, so it doesn't fill me with confidence.

[category12]

Have a look at the Paladin national stalking advocacy service website and consider getting advice/involvement from them.

[tenlittlecygnets]

Thanks. Will check that out.

[Dullardmullard]

Police are stretched yes but keep complaining they’ll soon sort it out for her.