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What is this on my DP's back? Done by another woman?

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RainbowAura Thu 03-Dec-20 22:28:01

What is this? Anyone with any knowledge? Dentist etc? Suspect possibility of love bite. Left by other woman on purpose? He's prone to binge-drinking and falling over. How likely is it there's an innocent explanation?

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NewNameNewJob Thu 03-Dec-20 22:29:03

What does he say it is?

catnoir1 Thu 03-Dec-20 22:29:51

Looks like he's landed on something

SlightDrizzle Thu 03-Dec-20 22:30:21

Seriously? Your husband has a bruise on his back and you immediately think it’s a love bite???

PlanDeRaccordement Thu 03-Dec-20 22:30:52

It’s a bruise. Looks like from falling into a corner of something.

Harrykanesrightsock Thu 03-Dec-20 22:31:01

Well I would say that’s a love bite.

Plastichearts Thu 03-Dec-20 22:31:02

Where on the back is it?

Changedmynameagain1 Thu 03-Dec-20 22:31:27

Looks like he’s fallen over and landed on something hard. Doesn’t look like a love bite 🙈

tenlittlecygnets Thu 03-Dec-20 22:32:27

If you see a bruise on your h's back and immediately assume it's a love bite, what's the point of your relationship? There's no trust there.

TheLadyOfShallnott Thu 03-Dec-20 22:32:28

It doesn’t look bitey to me. It looks as though he has fallen against something. I can see lines in it.

For you to think other woman - do you have reason to suspect something? Are you ok?

KarmaNoMore Thu 03-Dec-20 22:32:37

That’s just a bruise.

hollieberrie Thu 03-Dec-20 22:32:41

Love bite! Definitely

myneighboursarerude Thu 03-Dec-20 22:32:46

That’s a bad bang on the corner of a table, why is the first thought he’s cheating?

Does he have form OP?

CoffeeRunner Thu 03-Dec-20 22:33:04

Well it could be a love bite. Could also be a bruise from a million things.

What’s the backstory that makes you jump to the love bite conclusion?

pompey38 Thu 03-Dec-20 22:33:12

That’s not a bite , that’s a bruise, it seems that he’s prone to more than binge drinking if you’re getting suspicious so quick

saraclara Thu 03-Dec-20 22:33:31

It's a bruise

Ritascornershop Thu 03-Dec-20 22:34:37

Isn’t that an equally bad situation if he’s prone to binge drinking and falling over?

Gazelda Thu 03-Dec-20 22:34:38

Is there reason to suspect him of infidelity?
Does he know you've posted this on MN?

Sarahlou63 Thu 03-Dec-20 22:36:07

Did you tell him you were taking a photo of his bruise to post on MN?

Closetbeanmuncher Thu 03-Dec-20 22:36:30

He's prone to binge-drinking and falling over

Sounds like a keeper 😳....

Back to the question it looks like the sort of mark you get if you trap the skin.

InTheNightWeWillWish Thu 03-Dec-20 22:37:08

I often get identical marks on my thigh. It’s usually because I’ve walked into the corner of the bed frame.

If it is a love bite, it’s in a bit of an odd place...

AnyFucker Thu 03-Dec-20 22:38:25

It's the face of Our Lord Jesus

Hallelujah !

draughtycatflap Thu 03-Dec-20 22:38:58

Could it have occurred during a clumsy reverse cowgirl dismount from his lover’s knob?

HeeeeyDuggee Thu 03-Dec-20 22:40:11

Looks like a bruise I got on my side after walking into a table once

unplugged Thu 03-Dec-20 22:41:18

How long has it been there...? You'll soon know if it begins going through the blue / yellow bruising stages.. x

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