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Help with Snapchat please

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Snapchatnovice · 30/11/2020 11:32

DH and I have recently moved house and he has written down the room measurements in the ‘notes’ app on his iPhone.
Yesterday we were in the range and I saw a bed I liked so asked him to check if it would fit beside a chimney breast, so he got the notes app up on his phone. The first line of all the notes is visible and I noticed one that said ‘Snapchat’ then what looked like a username (a variation of his nickname)
I didn’t ask at the time as the assistant was with us but while we were driving his mum called so he asked me to answer it as it would be about the kids presents. I swiped across the pages and he didn’t have Snapchat installed.
I decided to look at the notes later, but when I got a chance last night the note had been deleted, and also not in recently deleted.
Ive never used Snapchat but had a play on my phone and there is an account with that username, but his email is not recognised.
I don’t know what the hell he is up to so have decided to keep quiet for the moment.
I was just wondering if someone can help - if I set up a Snapchat account how much can I see by just knowing a username? Thanks for reading

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unicornsnowflakes · 30/11/2020 13:12

You couldn't see unless you are friends.
Snapchat is known for cheating, that and kik.

He could have it linked to his number not an email address.

You could check his battery life, which will say what apps he's uses and for how long. You could also check apps that he's downloaded in App Store, it will say the date, in not only this phone. Obviously this is for iPhone.

Unless your his friend you won't be able to see his Snapchat score ( the amount of pictures his has sent and received.)

I sadly know this due to finding my ex dp on fabswingers, ( he didn't use the usual tinder as that would of been to risky) he was really good at convincing me that he hadn't changed but I could feel it. And I couldn't just leave with out proof.

Also the block list, had all the women numbers he WhatsApp, but would block the so they didn't dm when he was with me 🥴

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AspiringAmazon · 30/11/2020 13:53

If you feel the need to go to these lengths to spy on your husband that alone should tell you something. You don’t sound like you trust your partner at all.

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Snapchatnovice · 01/12/2020 10:27

@unicornsnowflakes thanks for the info. It gives the option on forgotten password to send a code to a phone, so I will try that. I looked in battery but no clues there.
I’m sorry you went through that. My friend has just been through similar. She though she was losing her mind thanks to her gaslighting husband. That was hook up sites too.

@AspiringAmazon I trust anyone until they give me reason not to. After seeing what my above mentioned friend went through, I am not comfortable with my husband seeming to have a secret Snapchat account

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Willhelp · 01/12/2020 15:52

Been there. I can help with social media things if you want to send me a dm

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Snapchatnovice · 02/12/2020 08:24

@Willhelp thank you. Will dm you now

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