Hi everyone
I'm 28 and have been with my husband since I was 13, married at 21.
We've had a few miscarriages together, I've got endometriosis, an autoimmune disease and sciatica.
I work full time, 12 hours a day, 5 days a week but he's becoming increasingly frustrated with me that I'm tired, the lack of sex (due to endo pain) maybe 5 times a month, and the fact that I want to chill on a weekend. I spend my Saturdays cleaning the house and doing laundry.
I've just come to the realisation that we are not compatible anymore after this morning he told me I do nothing and all he's heard all week is me "whinge" because my back has been bad and my IBS has been giving me tummy ache (caused by endo).
He also left me after my latest miscarriage in January 5 days after surgery he asked me to leave but then asked me to come back.
The problem is, I earn £1500 a month, I could not afford to private rent around my area, would I be entitled to help with housing cost? The council wouldn't even consider me for a place as been private renting for the past 8 years. I'm also paying off debt through step change (debt I racked up when I was very depressed due to losing my parents in a short amount of time, I bought things in exchange for temporary happiness).
I'm just wondering if anyone has any advice or anywhere they could point me to to help.
Thanks for reading xx
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dreamadream1 · 22/11/2020 13:22
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