I discovered dps affair about 7 months ago. He begged to stay, try again. I agreed and he said he’d respect the pace I wanted to go at. Lockdown, furlough, I never really believed that it would be fully over with her and although there wasn’t contact over the summer, they are now back in touch daily and he’s the driving force.
It’s clear that it over and I’m planning to ask him to leave. I’m getting financial advice, sorting bank accounts, utilities etc, and have been secretly packing a lot of his crap up. He is unaware I know about their affair continuing.
He’s just had an increase in pay and I’m due to find out whether my temp role will be made permanent soon. If it is, I’ll have more power to buy him out. If I’m not, I may struggle plus I may not be be working from home.
I’m fairly sure that he’ll move in with OW fairly quickly. He’ll stay local and dcs will want to see him. But how did your dcs cope with their dad suddenly swapping to a new partner? She has no children. This is worrying me a lot. It must be a lot for them to get their heads around? They’re 11 and 13.
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How did your dcs cope with DH/DP moving in with OW
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Devoilmum · 22/11/2020 11:20
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