DH and I are in troubled water (pardon the pun!) and have been for just over a year. We're probably past the point of salvaging anything, but I'm just reflecting.
Since I've met him, every evening that he spends at home not out doing hobbies, he has a really long bath. Since DCs, they are in bed by 8pm and then DH sits in the bath until 9.30.pm.
I go to bed at around 9.50pm as I'm often up with DC2 during the night. It means that we have never really had much time together in the evenings and time to chat and plan our lives has been non-existent.
When I go to bed, he stays up late watching Netflix.
We're like passing ships.
I get he needs to relax, but it's not really ok to choose long baths over connecting with his wife every single evening is it?
We have sex once a month because we don't really get the opportunity.
Are there any men out there who actually make an effort to connect to partners in the evenings? He seems to think this existence is normal and goes on in most households with DCs?
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DH's relationship with the bath!!
Dontcallmecrazy · 21/11/2020 21:24
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