Heya I don't usually post about my marriage but this has really got to me and I don't want to talk to anyone in rl about it.so for context me and dh do take the piss out of each other in a jokey way we've always done that. He's also quite romantic at times buys me flowers just because ect he hasn't done anything like that for a while
I said in a jokey way about he used to buy me flowers and he said clearly joking you used to put out!I laughed it off but it's act really got to me. Our sex life is a bit shit at the mo I'm never in the mood (we have 4 kids one with sn and I also have pnd) I know this bothers him. Im now wondering if he used to do these little things to get sex and now he knows I don't "put out"much that he thinks I'm not worth bothering for. There are a few things not great in our relationship atm but we've been getting on better last few days and this has just made me feel really hurt. I don't know if that was a dickish thing to say or if I'm being over sensitive.what do you ye think?thanks for reading this far.
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Shutupyoutart · 20/11/2020 11:15
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