Hi all,
So I'm 26 and I had a baby 3 months ago, myself and my ex-fiancé broke up 2 months after he was born and there's zero chance of reconciling. It's not like this wasn't planned and we didn't plan our future, we were together 8 years before deciding to "try". Anyway, he started getting abusive a couple months into my pregnancy and told me no one will want me now I'll be with a child, to make me feel like I have to put up him whenever we had an argument, then he'd go back to being nice again. I left a few weeks ago because the emotional abuse was getting too much and he was of no help physically or financially, really.
Those seeds of doubts have sprouted in my mind. What if I'll never find anyone again? I do want to be loved and I've been emotionally detaching from my ex for just under a year now, so the split (in my mind) has been happening for a good while. I know I won't even seriously consider a new relationship until this little one is at least a few years old, but I can't help but wonder. Are chances of single mothers finding love again much slimmer than childless mums?
I'd love to hear some advice or stories to make me feel a little better. I never thought I'd be in this situation, but here I am :/
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Finding love again as a single mum, chances slim?
AddictedToAvocados · 12/11/2020 13:19
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