So... me and my partner haven't been getting on for many reasons. Mainly because he thinks I should do everything around the house, pick up after him and do all sorts of things for him while he does nothing for me and the kids, because 'he works' but he's forgetting that I work too, as well as look after three children. Last night I got extremely fed up and decided I wasn't cooking tea, cleaning up, or doing anything. I haven't been in the house for a full day for well over a month. So everything needs a full clean, don't get me wrong it's not filthy or anything like that, but it's just not tidy and clean enough or organised etc. So he came home arguing with me, cooked tea, left food, tubs, tins, plates, pans, fresh food all over the kitchen, to the point where you can't even see the counter top. It's still all there this morning. I asked him to clean it up- you've never seen so much mess from one meal being made! He replied I'm not stupid I aren't doing it, you are.
So I've left it, but I feel like I need to clean it because it makes me feel so uncomfortable but I know he'll just take it for granted and keep doing what he's doing and expect me to do everything. I feel like I'm just left to do everything while he enjoys lots of 'me time, chill out time' etc and I don't even get 5 minutes of anything.
Not really any point to this post I just needed to vent. Feel like I need to leave- but no where to go. I'm trapped, fed up and depressed.
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mammamiaherewegoagain · 31/10/2020 07:08
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