I haven't really done this before. I fancy him but a relationship isn't feasible/desirable so I'm up for giving it a go.
But I'm not sure what I'm supposed to be doing really. I never text him to chat but my most recent text specifically asking to hook up went ignored. And I felt pretty miffed. I would have been cool with him replying that it didn't suit him for whatever reason but now I'm wondering whether feeling miffed is appropriate for this kind of relationship?
I mean I totally understand why he may not have wanted to. We had only seen eachother a couple of nights previously and I did think it might be a bit soon. It's just I had a rare child free night so shot him a text...
Now I'm all, 'well I'm going to wait for him to contact me. If he wants to see me he can get in touch.' And then worrying I'm over thinking it all. Perhaps I'm not cut out for this type of arrangement, I don't know.
But anyway, my question is, do people who navigate successful FWB get fed up if a text gets ignored? Or would you consider it no big deal?
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Friends with benefits. What are the 'rules'?
ChippyPickledEggs · 30/10/2020 18:52
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