My fiance of 13 years keeps letting me down on the really big stuff - marriage, money, trust, communication. He just refuses to talk to me, he walks away, stays away and he just want enter into any conversation about our life together. His ability to ignore me goes on for days and days and is accommpanied by a sense of great resentment and seething anger. He is never violent but I feel, so deeply neglected and my sense of selfworth so undermined that I fear I may become invisible. We do have some shared financial interests but when I try and discuss these and am within my rights to have these conversations he says I am showing my true colours......again that feels very undermining and gives him some sort of reason to not enter into the conversation. I have truly lived these years knowing that paying attention to your partner fosters love, but its a one way street. Intimacy in all areas no longer exists. I am struggling to accept the truth?
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