My husband of 21 years decided he want to pack up and leave because he was miserable. We married as teens and have 4 kids (3 older 1 toddler). I’ve also been miserable for years but planned on living that way forever to keep my family together. We had absolutely no communication in our relationship and we see that now. Anyhow, he left and I went from being a SAHM (our whole marriage) to getting a couple of jobs and moved on with life. After a couple of months He has decided he would like to come back home. I can’t tell if he’s being genuine or if he just wants the comfort of his home (where everything is done for him) and sex. I do love him but he was really hard to live with. His way or no way. Only his opinion mattered. If yours differed, you were wrong. So, while he has been gone one of my kids came out to me as being gay (I’ve known for years) and my husband is totally against that “life style”. My child will not tell him and neither will I, as it’s not my place. So now I feel stuck between them. I feel like I can no longer work on my marriage because I know he wouldn’t be accepting to our child. Someone please give me advice! I don’t know where to go from here. What would you do?
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