I started OLD a month ago, over a year after my relationship ended. Met a guy four times, stayed over at his once, we were chatting away on whatsapp after the last date, he suddenly stopped and 12 hours later was back on the app where we met. I was surprised how emotional I felt. I really fell for him and even had a little cry. That was two days ago. So far, I have spoken to two friends about it, went back on the app and arranged four dates for this week, ate a HUGE bar of chocolate, gave myself a ‘day off’ to mop around and sulk. Still feeling shit. I only knew him for three weeks and I knew he was not the right person for ltr for me anyway. But he was so affectionate and adoring, I really did not see it coming!
How the heck do I get over him? I keep checking if he is on the app, rereading his messages, thinking he might message me again (I know he won’t but I can’t help thinking what I would say). This is so hard! Any advice?
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Paddlingstillpaddling · 26/10/2020 16:09
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