Hi guys
So I have been with my husband for 3.5 years now and to be completely honest with myself, I'm thinking about separating. The last year or so has been really rough, I know every marriage can't be perfect all the time, but I honestly feel miserable most days. It started with the odd argument and now it's like every day it seems.
We are both nurses working full time and have 2 very young children, we get maybe 2 days off together in 3 months. I have been trying my best for a very long time to just ride it out, but it's making me ill. We barely speak to each other, I try to be intimate, but don't get anywhere. I feel like we are just 2 house mates living together. We both seem very angry all the time, which I try and hide from our children. I just feel like this is getting very toxic, but I don't want to break the family up.
I've been thinking this for over a year now and it's just getting too much. I need some advice please, I'm only 25 and don't want to regret making the wrong decision.
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Thatgirlcat · 26/10/2020 16:06
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