I asked DP(?) to wear a condom as I'd had my IUD removed about a month ago due to pelvic pain.
He pleaded not to wear one and that he would pull out before ejaculation. I put my foot down and said "no, you need to wear one as I don't want to get pregnant". Again, he's pressuring me and tries to assure me that it's unlikely that I'll get pregnant and he only wants to put the tip in for a few seconds.
So I cave in and let him put it in. He has sex with me and I'm just taking it- not enjoying it and in pain- and thinking about how I'm going to get the morning after pill tomorrow, and if I can even access any type of emergency contraception on a sunday.
We have a small child together and he's a useless dad. If I get pregnant, it will devastate me and I don't want to have an abortion.
I'm not sure if something wrong happened here, or if I should have just put my foot down. I don't feel good about myself and I'm worried about how my life could change just because i didn't walk out the room the second he refused to put on a condom.
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Was I coerced in to sex? Or should I have just been a bit more assertive?
lovehorror199ii · 24/10/2020 23:14
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