Can anyone explain why men stop wanting sex? And then make the woman feel bad for wanting it?
I was rejected again last night by my husband. All I did was kiss him in bed and smooth his back. He responded with a very curt "no" then rolled over and went to sleep.
I tried to discuss it this morning. He said he doesn't want sex and called me a pervert for wanting to have sex and says I always pester him (I haven't asked for weeks and even when I try it on it's only a kiss and if he says no I accept it). He's been rejecting me for 6 months now.
Usually I'd assume affair but he's been WFH as have I, so no chance of that being the case. Other than having to work from home nothing has changed in our lives so I can't understand why he's being like this.
I honestly don't feel like a pervert for wanting sex with my own husband ffs and now don't know what to do! Take him to a doctor? A therapist? A divorce lawyer?
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Made to feel like a pervert
RejectedAgain · 24/10/2020 23:05
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