I’m looking for support, a handhold, advice and a sounding board I guess. I have no one in real life. No family close by.
I exposed DPs affair 6 months ago. We talked, he was full of remorse. Wanted to stay. Lockdown so not much choice. He’s been on the floor in dcs room ever since. Said we’d take it slow.
Things have been ok. He’s a hard worker, supportive, practical.
But he’s back in touch with OW.
She’s same age, colleague, single, lives in a house share. No dcs.
I know, it can only mean one thing. It’s over.
But I’m struggling. Struggling to admit it. Struggling with the shame. Struggling for how it will affect our dcs (11&13). Worrying how I’ll cope. Financially, emotionally, practically. My dm has only a few months to live. I just don’t know how I’ll get through all this.
How do you tell dcs? How much do we say?
We have a joint mortgage. I put down a large deposit. 80k still to pay off.
I work full time, from home since March but find it difficult to switch off from it.
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QuesFrown · 24/10/2020 20:59
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