I’ve been with my partner for 4 years. We have a beautiful baby together and until yesterday I thought we had it pretty good. He is the love of my life and I can’t imagine being without him. So yesterday I received a message from a girl on Facebook. She basically sent me screenshots of a conversation she’d been having with my fella over 2-3 days. I won’t get into the sordid details but it basically consisted of sexual comments, explicit pictures and he’d sent her a video of himself masturbating. The worst thing is he’d arranged for her to go to his work at his dinner break, told her the exact address, the car park where his car is and arranged to have sex there. He gave her his number and asked her if she had any drugs on her. He knows I’m massively anti drugs, he told her he does coke and weed at work regularly. I feel like my life has been torn apart. He swore he’d never cheat on me. When I confronted him he claimed he knew it was a joke, knew she wouldn’t turn up and was just playing along.sid he doesn’t do drugs he was just saying it as she did. He turned it on me and said I shouldn’t believe a stranger over him. She then told him she’d found my profile on Facebook and knew he wasn’t single. He denied it then eventually begged her not to tell me, he’d do anything. I asked to look at his phone if he’s nothing to hide, he refused and said I should trust his word. He left then. Not a sorry, nothing. I’m completely devastated and don’t know what to do. I never thought he’d do anything like this
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