So after many years of living with an addict and giving him loads of support and chances to get clean, I'm done.
I can't live with his paranoia anymore, his constant sleeping and avoiding reality, his constant messing with the computer and phone lines due to his paranoia, his weird and inappropriate behaviour. The list is endless.
I have instructed my solicitor to commence divorce proceedings but dread having to live with him pending the sale of the house, dividing of assets,...
I suspect he will become unpleasant (not physically) but what do I do if he ignores legal correspondence? What if he is difficult about selling the house? What if his mental health declined further and he becomes a nightmare to live with?
If I move out then I'm certain this will mean the house sale will be affected (he is very messy)?
For context, been together 20+ years and got 1 DD (15) living with us.
Just looking for practical advise to make it go as smoothly as possible.
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How to divorce mentally unstable DH?
kokobeanqueen · 19/10/2020 22:02
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