Hi guys,
I posted a while ago about a break up I went through....I looked for advice on the best way to go about things after a three year relationship. Things were quite bad between us and I've ended it and have been moving on. In the past couple weeks we haven't spoken but today he messaged asking would I meet him tomorrow. I know from past experience the reason he would want to meet is to 'check in', make sure I'm ok and look like the good guy. I've asked for the reason he wants to meet and he didn't have one. I find myself quite bitter about how I'm still dealing with the fall out of the relationship (I've had fertility issues since and have had many hospital appointments since) while he is happily moving on and I'm not sure it's good for my head to meet up.
Can I be honest and say I don't want to? We still have stuff belonging to the other but he hasn't looked for his yet, I know we will have to sort that out at some point. I think seeing him would mess up my head and take me back to how bad things were before. Any advice is much appreciated, thanks xx
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Is It Ok to Not Meet Up?
minibreakams1 · 19/10/2020 21:26
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