Short story: For 16 months ago she left. Since then mixed signals. After like 2 months she wanted sex and got that. I got presents,dinners,sextoys,we slept naked togheter like 10 Times,i got birthday gifts with hearts on them etc. I got my hopes on. She moved and i got one key to her flat. We hanged a lot,we have one kid who was 2 months old when she left. She wanted me to sleep over and the day after she wanted to go out and eat. We spent the hole day togheter with our kid. The evening arrived and the asked me to spend the night. I did and We both slept naked. No sex. Can you understand i got my hopes on?
I liked to surprise her during my childweek and have done so 5-8 Times. I got the key also. She was always happy to see the kid and me,she made coffe and bought breakfast.
So 25/9 our kid turned 1,5 years. I wanted to surprise her. Arrived and went inside. Nobody there,i usually go to the bedroom so i did. She was riding another dude!
I fell apart. She came out. We talked. She said the guy was only sex and nothing serious at all (The guy must have heard that,laying 2meters away) its weird i say so about him laying so close,she said.
She has been feeling very down because of the breakup(16months ago!!?),she continued saying that she is so afraid to see me with another women(??)
She loved having sex with me but did not have it because of our kid(????). She also Said that she wanted things to be exactly as before i caught them fucking. (!!??)
The breakup was her accusing me for cheating,i did not cheat!! Later she said that i "tried to cheat" Makes no sense to me at all...
After this i blocked her on social media,no contact IF its not about our kid. I talked to preeschool and arranged leaving and fetching the kid at preschool. No more Sundays leaving/fetching and coffe,dinner and maybe sleepovers.
Yesterday preeschool rang,the kid was sick so i fetched him. Sent a text to my ex saying he is sick. She has not replayed! Why? Its about her kid!
What to do with this women? Its the mother of my kid! Is there a chans for us again? What does she Think of me applying no contact? And why are she so angry so she cant reply stuff about her kid?
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