There's a married dad that lives a few doors away from me and our kids go to the same school and nursery. I'm also married and I'm the one that tends to do the school run so over the last four years or so I'd sometimes bump into him and we'd chat whilst walking the kids to school. We get on well and conversation is usually easy. In the last couple of months though he's blown really hot and cold.
Yesterday I bumped into him as he walks past my house so we walked to school together chatting, then he tailed off and started speaking to his kids so I walked on ahead as he made it clear he was done chatting. Today he walked past my house and kept his head down when he saw me and didn't even say hello. So bizarre! He'll mainly say hello and stop and chat when his kids and other parents aren't around and is as friendly as anything. On the school run these days he pretty much ignores me and pretends like I'm not there. I can't be bothered to play games with people especially those I consider to be a friend. I can't think how I would've upset him in any way and the chat is always about kids/life/work etc.. any one shed some light on this behaviour? I've started to ignore him now too as I find it quite hurtful not knowing where I stand with someone.
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angelofmum · 09/10/2020 14:04
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