Not a TAAT as such...but inspired by another thread on here which prompted a discussion with my partner.
We have been living together since March, in a very small space. He's very tidy, I am not. To help with keeping housework fair, we have a rota, and an agreement to clean the whole space every other weekend. We pretty much stick to it, which helped us not get irritated with each other initially. However, further arguments arise now as he is not happy with the 'standard' of my cleaning and how I do things. I am quite forgetful (I have ADHD) and tbh, remembering to put everything in the same place, every time, and how things 'should' be done, is not at the top of my agenda. I have a very busy and stressful full time job, as well as trying to finish a qualification on top of that, meaning in total I work 40 hours+ a week, every week. Should I try more or should he chill out?
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Millymollymandy13 · 08/10/2020 19:30
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