Feeling a bit down and maybe oversensitive.
Left a violent relationship recently. Was advised to apply for non molestation order. Given a charity number for help with the application. They refused to help. Told me I wasn't eligible for legal aid because it was more than a few weeks since I'd seen my ex. He's continuing to make threats. That's why I was advised to make the application.
I got more confused after calling several solicitors. All the legal aid ones told me I was eligible afterall but they also all told me different things about the process. One really panicked me by saying I'd be eligible for costs if he contested it and won. I think he wouldn't win or even contest it but don't know for certain.
The only solicitors who seemed to get my situation and who seemed to know about the process were private ones who don't do legal aid. I lost confidence in the system and didn't go ahead but still feel upset about the experience especially with the charity who told me I wasn't eligible for their help. I don't understand why when other places said I was. Also I've seen people advise other posters to apply for occupation orders but every solicitor I spoke to said these were very rare.
I still may need to apply for the non molestation and don't know what to do. Are legal aid solicitors not as good or was my experiences just bad luck? I want someone who knows what they're doing. Some of the legal aid ones I spoke to got basic legal info wrong. I have almost no money but is it worth paying a private solicitor?
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losttrustandfaith · 07/10/2020 22:44
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