Hello again its been about 3 years i believe since i posted- Its now been i believe 10 years since me and my wife last had sex... yep 10 years!!! We are still in separate rooms and she's still as cold as ever... I'm in my 50's but im a police officer so i have to keep fit im well groomed, i just don't know what im doing wrong? she's going through the menopause but how long does that last? i want my wife back.