He is a stressY man, quite angry a lot of the time, but convinced he’s calmness personified.
I’m generally fairly easy going and a bit inclined to take more shit than I should for a quiet life.
He seems to want to get wound up about something then pass that stress on to me, so he can skip off and leave me 8n a tither. His dad does it to his mum too.
We’ve got plumbers in so are a bit at 6s and 7s.thats stressing him.
Stupid small example he cooked and cleared up last night. . He obviously forgot to clean out the noodle Pan before putting in Dishwasher so there’s noodles in the trap. He stops me in the stairs and asks who put the pasta in the dishwasher. I’m a bit confused as we haven’t had pasta so I said I don’t know he did the dishes last night and we haven’t had pasta for ages we had noodles.
He starts Saying noodles pasta same thing ‘v common word for same things. So I just said not Me. Th3n he start# faffing with ch timer as plumbing has changed it. So8 end up cleaning out the dishwasher and sorting out dh. And feeling stressed when I hadn’t been and he’s now singing in the shower.
Hmmmm.
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DH seems to want to share his stress with me?
GiraffeNecked · 06/10/2020 07:47
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