It's been 3 years of dramatic emotional up and downs - not with money, the business has been successful - hard work though. But BP has been hard work - emotionally manipulative, sulking, silent treatment - withdrawing, not coping well when tough decision need to be made, classic cake and eat it scenario - they want everything, playing the victim - no empathy, no apologies when they have clearly been in the wrong - everything about them, using the business as a lifestyle accessory.
They are brilliant at the technical aspect of the job - it's the sharing of the running bit that they don't handle well - they want to run the business in their head but in reality they don't - they can't accept reality.
Dh is attempting to remove them, via their contract but they are clinging on. Changing tactics - they tried being abusive, then upset, then charming and now begging. It's like a marriage break up for dh - he's finding it very difficult - he still wishes they could fix it - they've tried but it never works - his heart is not in the break up but the future is bleak if they hang around - with years of emotional upset on the cards.
Looking back the bp's behaviour closely matches a shy/covert narcissist I'm worried that he will cave - he shows sign of weakening and accepting them back, (he would really prefer to have a partner, just a more stable one.) The BP said they never fail - they always get their own way no matter how long it takes - funny how chilling those words are now.
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Tenneson · 06/10/2020 07:18
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