I'm actually not sure whether I'm just a lazy sod or if the problem lies with DP.
He's obsessed with things being clean. I WFH and each day I straighten the living room up (make the sofas, throws, pillows) and hoover up. I tidy the kitchen, put a wash on and put one out on the line or on the radiators. Tuesday I did a deep clean of the kitchen and ironed for two hours, I wiped all the windowsills down and did the skirting boards but it's still not good enough. I wasn't home yesterday till 10pm and was at work again today (in the office). I made a roast dinner and the floor ended up with a few drops of steamed water.
I can only buy a certain type of kitchen roll. He constantly wants a "deep clean" and I'm just fed up. I was thinking the other day how nice it would be to just not worry about tidying up before he gets home
He's just said "I don't tidy up a lot" and it's actually upset me, I feel so unappreciated and he's completely missing my points.
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Am I just a lazy girlfriend or is he unreasonable?
DontBendYourAccrylicNail · 01/10/2020 20:14
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