Hello. After the breakdown of a 14 years relationship i finally decided to try again. It's all going well at the moment but then again is only few months relationship. He got serious fast , talking about a future together and how much i mean to him etc.
Dp suddenly announced yesterday night that his plans changed suddenly and that today he is going to a trip few hours away to meet some woman he knows and talks on the internet for 4 years but he never met. I was a bit surprised because it was suddden and he added that her kids and husband will be there too. I dont know what the truth is but the whole thing just sounds strange to me .
While he can do whatever he wants i am a bit put off by all that, my mind tells me that there is no problem but i can not help feeling unhappy about it. Tonight he expects me to see all the photos he will take in that trip but i just dont want to....
How am i meant to react? Am i meant to be fine with it? I dont want to have long petty conversations about it but same time i dont feel i can be in serious relationship with someone who finds it reasonable to talk with verious women over the internet and arrange meetings with them . Any opinions appreciated
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am i overreacting
noone12345 · 29/09/2020 15:02
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