Hi I really need some advice. Has anyone been in the same situation as me ? I basically don't have a clue what this man is doing or thinking ,is he messing with my head or just scared .
So I have known this man in work for 3 years and I have always felt a connection towards him . I felt he felt the same too . We got on amazingly and we still do now . I would never admit my feelings for him until one day about 3 weeks ago he just came out with it . He said that he has strong feelings for me and he wishes he didn't because things are complicated . I said I had feelings for him too and we sat and talked about a few things . Everything was great . We have worked together nearly everyday and he has become pretty flirty with me . Touching me a lot and just playing around . It makes work fun .
We met up the other night and just went for a drive and talked for hours . I think we were both tempted to kiss but I was scared and I think he must of been too . We were talking yesterday and this is what has confused the hell out of me . We were taking about dtd . Both of us saying how we have wanted too for years and obviously it will happen sometime in the future . I would want to but I'm just so nervous and I can't put my finger on why . I'm scared it will ruin our friendship because he's like my best friend and I'm also scared once we do it he won't like me anymore . He came out with a what if we do it and I developed strong feelings for him or vice Versa because if that was to happen he would have to take a step back and it wouldn't be fair on me . He did text me when I got home after he said that and he apologised and said I know I sounded like a dick . But he wouldn't explain what he ment . Does anyone have any ideas please ? I'm tempted to just go back to just being friends .
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blossomhill22 · 24/09/2020 20:28
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