Ok, so I'm from a big family with lots of cousins and have never had any problems with any of them but there's one who seems to have taken a real dislike to me in recent years.
We are like chalk and cheese, I'm very down to earth, unmaterialistic and live modestly but she's the opposite. Very into her designer items, flashy house, flash car etc. She talks like she's sucking lemons and looks down her nose as she speaks. Very snobby.
We only ever see each other at my grandparents' house, never have any direct contact. We've just never been close as we are so different.
Last year she got engaged so I sent a polite message to her on Facebook just to congratulate her, more out of politeness and out of respect for her parents and our grandparents really. She ignored this message then had deleted it when I looked again the next day.
So I thought what's wrong, why is she being rude? My mum and her mum were close, so we asked her mum what's going on and she said "Oh, she mustn't have spotted the message, she's never deliberately ignore you..".
Fast forward to the wedding, I was the only person out of the WHOLE FAMILY of about 100 people who was only invited to the evening do (she probably knew I couldn't attend the evening as I had a young baby). Everyone else (including obscure relatives she never had anything to do with were invited to the day and the evening parts.
Then, recently she had a baby shower and once again, I was the ONLY female relative who wasn't invited.
I'm not particularly bothered about having a close relationship with this cousin but I just feel a bit upset that she's been so rude to me when I've never do anything to her. Some people close to me say she's jealous because I received a large inheritance from a mutual relative who left nothing to her, but I've never rubbed anybody's nose in that. I still live modestly and save that money for my child's future.
WWYD? Her parents have always been decent and lovely with me, so have her 3 brothers. It's just her who seems to have an issue with me.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
Issue with my cousin. WWYD?
19 replies
Maxine3477 · 23/09/2020 23:28
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.