Sorry for long title. Just back from accompanying DP on work trip 3 hours away. Stayed in an Air BnB. Later today we are going to the opposite end of the country to his house in Scotland. We will stop en route to see his DS for a couple of nights. This will involve staying in a hotel to break up the journey. It's also his birthday along the way, will have to make that special somehow. The journey may also involve a camper van.
I feel worn out! I only work PT and it's online, so take my laptop and get stuff done. The rest of the time, I'm with him or just by myself. It can get a bit lonely.
Back at 'home': at the moment we are living in my house. Sometimes we live at his. This is a houseboat, or he has a flat which he rents out. We stay there if it's free.
I'm finding it exhausting. Not sure how to manage it, though. My DCs don't want him to live with me. Given how chaotic his living arrangements are, I'm not sure that I want to live together, either.
I'm constantly living out of a suitcase. It can be fun, but I am wiped. He suggests we eat out ALL the time, so wherever we are, the fridges are sparse. I love cooking, but I can only make so many plans.
How to manage this? Does anyone else have a partner with a weird concept of 'home'?
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Odd sense of home - anyone else constantly moving in their relationship?
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BetterBeHomeByMidnight · 23/09/2020 09:31
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