After 3 years of future faking and love bombing it dawned on me that he’s never going to change. So I left him despite him begging me to give it another chance. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever done and have spent the past fortnight wondering if I have been too hasty ending it.
Since I left, he’s not been in touch at all. This is despite him berating me for not wanting to stay in touch.
I’ve now finally plucked up the strength to block and go NC.
I’m starting to actually hate him now. Hate him for wasting 3 years of my life when he had no intention of taking things to the next level. He was too afraid of his ex wife to tell her about us. After 3 years. They divorced years before we met.
I am now seeing him as a spineless coward but I still love him despite starting to hate him.
Is this normal? I feel like I’m going mad.
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Starting to hate my ex. Is this healthy?
NeedtogoNC · 16/09/2020 14:50
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