I (and younger son) took my son down (from Yorkshire) to university in London on Saturday. Dropped him off sat morning and left him while we booked into out hotel. Met him later for lunch until about 4pm where he went to his room and we went to our hotel. He text about 5pm saying he hated it so constant texting back and forth me trying to reassure him. He met his room mates later that evening and said they were nice but didn't feel like he had anything in common with him. We met him Sunday morning for breakfast. He was in a bad way, crying etc so we booked another night in hotel and spent the day with him. He went back to his room Sunday afternoon and within half an hour he's texting saying he hates it etc. Met yesterday morning and he seemed a little happier. I said we'd come down next weekend.
He text as soon as we got home yesterday saying he was lonely. Again this morning. He went to see student services thus morning and they told him to fill in a form online for an appointment.
I should add that he's autistic but no special needs. He has trouble with change and social situations.
Sorry for the length of this.
Can someone please give me some advice as I don't know if I should bring him home or be tougher with him but I'm worried about his mental health.
I've tried telling him that it'll be hard to begin with but that it takes time but it's falling on deaf ears.
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Son hates university. Don't know what to do.
Janedoughnut · 15/09/2020 10:43
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