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category12 Tue 15-Sep-20 06:05:58

Bullshit. He's turning this on you to wrongfoot and confuse you. Your relationship is buggered.

MashedSweetSpud Tue 15-Sep-20 03:50:35

Sounds like an excuse to me.

Aquamarine1029 Tue 15-Sep-20 03:44:42

All of this nonsense is ridiculous. Both of you sound like 13 year olds. If you don't trust him, leave him. All of these games and snooping is absurd.

Weety100 Tue 15-Sep-20 03:39:08

I know what I've done is illegal , as he keeps telling me! But surely relationship wise he's in the wrong

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Weety100 Tue 15-Sep-20 03:24:32

4 years and have a 3 year old. Exactly what I said why hide. I just think he's made excuse because he's been caught.

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rainbowninja Tue 15-Sep-20 03:21:38

It does sound a bit off, if he's got nothing to hide then why delete messages and why not offer you reassurance instead of making excuses and saying he did it to set you up? It makes it sound more suspicious?

Either way, it doesn't speak well of your relationship. Have you been together a long time?

Weety100 Tue 15-Sep-20 03:11:14

Apparently he wanted to see if I was looking on his FB, so he stated messaging some random to see if I'd say something. Yes I've looked before because this has happened before. Never cheated as far as I know.

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rainbowninja Tue 15-Sep-20 03:07:11

Do you mean he's cheated before? Or sent Msgs? I'm not sure how he could set this up just to see if you were snooping?

It'd make me uncomfortable too if my husband had a female friend I didn't know about and they were chatting all day.

Weety100 Tue 15-Sep-20 03:01:57

We have trust issues anyway has this has happened before. With the none friend all messages deleted do I don't know. With the friend nothing sexual but they are all day every day while he at work then stops before he gets home and both messages muted. Mainly just general chit chat from what I've seen but if that's it why hide it? He actually found out I knew about messages last week but didn't tell me he knew like I didn't tell him.

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rainbowninja Tue 15-Sep-20 02:58:29

Sounds a bit odd! What were the messages about? And why would he want to see if you were snooping?

Weety100 Tue 15-Sep-20 02:55:15

So just found out my other half has been hiding messages from me, one from a friend of 20 years who has recently split from her husband and one from someone he hardly knows friend of friend really. He said he's done it on purpose to see if I'm snooping! I have no issue with friends at all as long as honesty but we don't seem to have any of you think he's saying this to turn it in me?

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