Hi
ive been lurking for a while and hope for some help. I dont know if its just advice i need but support too. I am leaving OH after 30 years. we never married and have 2 grown children (left home) and some BTL properties in both names.
My OH is a textbook narcissist which is has largely contributed to me having severe mental health issues for over 25 years. Due to this my work history has been erratic to say the least with leaving every job within 2 years due to stress/anxiety/depression. Ive spent many years on very high dosage anti depressants so most of my time has been spent at home raising the children and not bringing any income in I have never claimed benefits and dont think Id be entitled to them.
I feel trapped and dont know what to do. I want to leave but on paper I have property but no money or income. He even cleared our joint bank account when I told him I wanted to leave.
I am totally isolated due to control/depression so have no one to talk through this with. Can anyone relate? Any advice.
He is being very difficult about me leaving, basically I am to leave with virtually nothing after 30 years as 'he is the one that brings all the money in'. Which is something I have had drummed into me for years.
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30 years unmarried - breakup
leaveitbehind · 10/09/2020 16:51
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