I broke up with my ex 6/7 weeks ago, I'm finally moving back home in 2 weeks time. Unfortunately we've had to live together until I'm due to leave as i had no-where else to go (living with his family currently in a different European country)
Anyway, he's a complete and utter twt, i've been here nearly 4 years, in that time he's only worked for around 6 months until very recently, when i handed my noticed in and said i was leaving, he's managed to get himself a job, funny how he couldn't before now!
Anyway, I've been paying for everything (no DC's), he also smokes and was a big weed smoker, but hasn't since new years.
He thinks I'm shagging half of our town, when I'm at work apparently i make porn films lol, he thinks i take coke etc... I can't do anything by myself, never have time to myself and i never have money as it's always me that pays, if we go to the cinema its me that pays, if we have dinner its me again who pays, you get the idea.
I finally cracked and had enough, handed my noticed in for my job that i love and I'm coming home. I'm actually leaving a day earlier then he thinks as i know what he's like and he'll either try and stop me from leaving or will find a way for me to miss my flight. Luckily he works away during the week, only returning on the weekends. I'm leaving on the Friday and not the Saturday as he thinks i am. Anything, i feel so guilty, I'm going to call him on the Friday afternoon when I'm on my way to the airport as i think it a bit sht leaving and not saying bye, though i don't own him anything. I just feel guilty as i know he'll be upset that he hasn't actually said bye
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I feel so guilty, broken up with DP and leaving earlier then he thinks
girlwithadragontattoo · 10/09/2020 15:13
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