With mine he was unfailingly miserable and uncommunicative for 20 years.
He never had to pay the mortgage or the bills and half the time was unemployed yet was miserable nearly all of the time.
Arranged a big birthday party for him - miserable.
A weekend away - miserable.
A holiday - miserable.
I've never known anybody so chronically discontented.
Now he's gone he is now skint, lonely and miserable.
He would only have ever been happy if we'd have been having perverted sex in rubber gear 30 times a day, joining swinging clubs and watching porn 24/7 none of which interests me.
Even then he would still have picked holes in it and said it wasn't enough for him.
God I'm happy he's gone, I can actually spend a day with people who smile and are grateful for a day out.
He asked if he could come back and I thought I'd honestly rather die.
This was just one of his many failings as a husband, there are many more.
You do wonder why you stayed so long!!!
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I would love to know why you left your ex, what was it about them.
madcatladyforever · 10/09/2020 12:57
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