Multiple rapes in ex relationship(2 Posts)
Jingles93 Mon 07-Sep-20 19:34:04
princessconsulabananahammock Mon 07-Sep-20 21:09:52
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My and my ex have spilt up, there is non molestation order due to his emotional/mental abuse. I am currently 35w pregnant.
He has raped me whilst I've been on medication, drunk, woke up with him touching my private areas and pressing his penis against me, I did not have sex with him at the time of conception. I only can remember one solid date of rape.
I am contact with a local charity(I have Rape Trauma Syndrome) and I am going to press charges but I'm petrified of going to do a statement, he is going to deny it. He comes across as very plausible and will blame my 'mental health'
If anyone has had similar circumstances I would like to hear the advice or any support through this process.
@Jingles93. I can’t even begin to imagine what you have been through. They will believe you when you give your statement. Take your time and tell them everything. I’m sorry I have no other advice to offer as have not been through this. Stay strong.
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