Please forgive me here, I have high functioning ASD so not fantastic with social interaction sometimes or knowing how to say the right thing without coming across differently to how I mean.
Time 1: A friend messaged me last month asking to meet up, i suggested a date where we eat out in a few weeks which she agreed to. I asked her where she wanted to go (i drive and she doesnt). Friend read but didnt reply. I messaged her a few days before saying it might be too Last minute to eat now (booking needed) buy suggested coffee instead. She said she was now unable to but could I do next week.
Time 2: next week rolls around. We agreed Wednesday. I asked her where she fancied going. No reply. It got to Thursday and I messaged saying "well, I guess we didnt meet Wednesday... is everything alright?". Friend said shes having problems with things going on in life, but suggests meeting this week.
Time 3: agreed to meet this week on a Wednesday. She cancels saying she has double booked but could we do today I agree and say are you 100% sure about wanting to meet. We can put it off till shes in a better place. She insists she wants to meet up still.
Time 4: text has come through saying shes had a rubbish day and isnt up for socialising...I've read but not replied as I'm feeling fed up to be honest!
What would the best thing to say to this be. In annoyed and dont want to meet up for a while after this, but dont want to sound arsey with her if shes having a difficult time.
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DilemmaADay · 07/09/2020 12:14
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