Name changed as this is deeply personal.
Having read the recent thread about another mumsnetter and her new DP being unable to climax, then googling death grip I think DH has it.
We have been together for 15 years. For the first half we had sex everyday/most days and mostly it was a great relationship. Then DC came along and things changed. We sleep in separate rooms due to snoring which obviously affects availability. I know he watches porn. This upsets me but all men do it etc etc.
We probably have sex every few weekends and mostly after drinking. He now struggles to come and as it's usually very active, we sort of give up once I'm knackered - I'm much less fit than him and a tad overweight. I always thought it was because of drinking (and a mix of me being overweight and him finding me less attractive) as it used to happen in the past but now it most times. He does come quickly from blowjobs when sober.
I'm not really sure what I want from this thread but I'm really not sure how to process this and it's quite upsetting to realise. I suppose just other people's experiences of this would really help. I feel like I need to do a test sex run when he's sober 😳 that won't be much fun.
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Fuck! I think DP has death grip
HelloPonDiOtherSide · 06/09/2020 19:48
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