Totally prepared to be told I am.. and if I am then I don’t have to be angry about it!!
DP and I have quite different interests. We have lots in common in terms of who we are and we get on great. This isn’t a big problem but it’s something he KEEPS bringing up and it’s getting to me a bit.
So he often (I would say often) wants to have conversations with me about things only he is interested in. For example, last night we watched an entire Metallica gig on tv. I really don’t like Metallica, and it was annoying because it was the only thing we watched together. During this he also wants me to be talking to him about fucking METALLICA, despite me knowing exactly 0 of their albums because it’s not my thing.
Today I have been cleaning the flat and he’s pestering me to sit down and watch.. the cricket. I don’t like cricket. It’s so boring. I come and sit down and watch it and he talks at me about cricket, which I know nothing about and therefore literally cannot contribute to the conversation other than asking him vague questions.
I also had to do work today so I went and did that and he was annoyed because he thinks I’m “dismissive” of stuff he’s interested in. I personally don’t think it’s reasonable to expect me to spend like, over an hour at a time watching something I have no interest in, and also fully engaging in it and listening to him tell me about it.
Am I being totally mad here? I don’t really get it because just chatting about stuff he’s interested in is fine and actually I do that every day. It’s just, I’m sorry but I’m not watching an entire cricket match whilst listening to him tell me about fucking cricket when I DON’T LIKE CRICKET. 😂 for over an hour!!
Also - I’ve asked him to watch plenty of films with me but he won’t because “he doesn’t like them”.
I just feel as though sometimes he doesn’t value my time and doesn’t think anything of getting annoyed at me for not wanting to spend an hour listening to him talk about something I know absolutely nothing about. 😔
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Am I in the wrong here..
year5teacher · 06/09/2020 17:05
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